Birthday, this special day of the year, yours only. Well if you don't count the other half a billion people born on the same day. I say no, it is not your special day, it is your mother's special day. How many of you know how many hours your mothers have been in labour? I came out easily- 2 hours. My best friend's mother took 12 hours to give birth to her. Poor woman! I am not having a baby, I will have alot of dogs and cats they love you all the same, you still teach them basic things, they do not disappoint or let you down tho! However my view about birthdays is not common.
So let's talk about the 'usual' birthday. There is a party with lots of friends with a big cake, you blow the candles and make a wish, you get presents from your friends and family. It is your special day after all. But yours or mine can never be as special as MTV's MY SUPER SWEET 16.
This is a show where immaturity and senselesness are being rewarded like they are the best qualities a person could have. You remember when you were a baby and cried every two hours of the night because you were hungry, wanted to be held or because you pooped and your parents were constantly there for you to attend every need? Basically this is a show about 16 years olds wanting things and their parents delivering. This is a fairytale about demand and delivery. Not the one where the poor demand better jobs and better pay, but a show where the spoiled and the greedy demand more and get it. I can understand that the parents of the kids in this show have alot of money, of course they will buy their kids expensive presents simply because they can affort it. What I don't understand is why do parents who have strived to be their own bosses, who have made enough money to support three spoiled girls plus their lazy spoiled wife actually HAVE spoiled kids and wifes!? How does that work, clearly to have your own buisiness that means you have to have a brain inside that head. How come people like that are incapable of raising a normal child? Ok, it is ok, some people are just spoiled, but the other thing I don't understand is the extend of their unapreciation, I am talking about the kids and how much they do not care about their parents WASTING money. I am disapointed by the disrespect these kids show. I don't care that they sh*t on their parents, but for god's sake, I feel that they literally sh*t on me. They sh*t on me working my ass off at two jobs, going to university, trying so hard to figure out what life is about, worrying about how many less unfortunate people there are in the world. Do you believe me that I am happy just because I am able to breath, I am able to walk and have a normal life. Again, what I am trying to say is that it is not stupid to get a BMW M6 for your 17th birthday just because your dad own's a hotel, that is the natural way of life, what I am trying to say is that their parents are the stupidest parents I have ever seen, they are rewarding their kids for...... NOTHING. They are producing a generation of talantless free loaders! Oh no, they definetly won't be riding on our poor backs, but they will ride on their parents backs for the rest of their lifes, because they are not good at anything else.
B.F.Skinner- one name to sum up what I am trying to say; possitive reinformance. You are good- you get a candy. You know even when you play a game you get rewarder for doing good-you can proceed with the level. Why is it so hard for people to know when to reward their children. My only conclusion is that sh*tty parents produce sh*tty children. Hope one day they open their eyes. Good luck!


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